Dear Tasha Truth,

Every time I come to my parents about anything that I’m struggling with in my life, they always blame it on my sexuality. They don’t want me to leave them alone, yet they continue to ostracize me by blaming everything wrong in my life on the fact that I am a lesbian. What should I do?

Anonymous,
Houston, TX

Dear Anonymous,

How do YOU feel about it? Do you think your struggles are a direct result of your sexuality? If not, you will have to sit them down and let them know what’s up. Tell them that EVERYBODY struggles in this life, including them, and people will struggle regardless of their  sexuality! They need to understand that you would like their assistance and support, but not if it means putting you down and degrading your lifestyle. I don’t think you have to completely leave them alone, but you might not want to go to them with your problems. There are other support systems that you can tap out, such as friends, other family (like cousins you can confide in), and Tasha Truth! You ALWAYS have a place in our family here!

Your Fam for life,
Tasha Truth, the ATM

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